When discussing process we talked more about cultural differences – how the cultural orientation of staff working at the Games can affect how the work gets done, as an example.  When discussing outcome, we talked more about cultural connection – how bringing people together creates a spirit of commonality that speaks to the essence of the event.  While those conversation threads can seem almost contradictory when viewed separately, together they represent the larger whole that intercultural communication looks to embody.

That discussion led me to think about Multiculturalism at 40 and what I am asking people to do: write about a personal experience observing cultural difference in their everyday lives.  It’s not a topic that rests comfortably with everyone. I know in speaking about the project, I’ve occasionally had the feeling that multiculturalism in Canada is on that list of topics that people feel they “shouldn’t” talk about. I also admit I’ve had moments when the notion of focusing on differences has made me feel uncomfortable.  What makes us nervous?

If I go back to the evening with Sietar BC, there is something in the duality of that conversation that is important to realize.  We know that an awareness and openness to different ways of seeing, and being in the world is one way to foster greater connection.  Perhaps in our everyday lives, selv, we fear that the process of discussing differences won’t be perceived as supporting an outcome of greater understanding – or will become disconnected from it.  If we can find more ways to keep  the discussion process and that intended outcome framed together perhaps we’ll grow more confident about the conversation as a whole.  And from the stories submitted to this project so far I can see there is such a range of human experience to be explored that is variously thoughtful, startling, joyful, challenging, amusing and inspiring.

Den andre fanget min oppmerksomhet fordi jeg vet at å bli spurt det spørsmålet ofte kommer med den slutning at du har en eller annen måte klarte å se ut som om du er fra “her.” Forklarer selv kan bli gamle ganske raskt, spesielt hvis du har den forstand du alltid blir blinket ut for spørsmålet. Uten at ytterligere frakt skjønt, det er et spørsmål som jeg tror er ofte brukt på samme måte som snakke om været. Det er en måte å lage en forbindelse. Som en nasjon av reisende og folk “fra-away,” de fleste av oss er fra et annet sted, selv om det er bare den andre siden av provins eller territorium, or the other end of the country.

Jeg tilbyr opp denne lille observasjon til alle dem som blir spurt spørsmålet oftere enn de burde. På en merkelig måte, kanskje det er et merke av inkludering. Du har blitt bedt den nest vanligste kanadiske spørsmål. A complaint about the weather can’t be far behind.