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Family Practice

MC40_PatternSquare07aLong before the Canadian government adopted their “policy”, multi-culturalism was woven into the very fabric of my family’s life. In spite of my dad fighting in the Royal Air Force during World War II, or perhaps because of it, my parents embraced friends from across Europe, India and Asia irregardless of differences in culture or station. As civilian air travel improved and became more accessible, I’m told it was a great time to meet and experience people from around the world. A parade of nations passed through Edinburgh where my parents lived during those early years of their marriage.

Their attitudes didn’t change when they emmigrated from Scotland and settled in small town Ontario. That’s when I arrived on the scene. Continue reading

Intertwined: A Lived Experience

MC40_Annette-Lisa-RoseI grew up in a primarily Dutch community in Edmonton. I went to a Dutch church, a Dutch school, and while anyone was welcome, not many people of other ethnicities joined us. From birth to Grade 12, most of my friends were of Dutch descent.

This changed when I went to university. I didn’t cast off my Dutch friends, but started to diversify—not with any purposeful intent, but because in my new environment I was surrounded by diversity. I met my Chinese Canadian friends Lisa and Rose in my second year. Our friendship brought together a collection of Dutch and Chinese students who all became obsessed with dim sum lunches. We became part of each other’s families joining in celebrations from Chinese New Year’s to Sinter Klaas. I soon knew as many words in Cantonese as I knew in Dutch and I became an expert with chopsticks.

It didn’t take long to realize that there was little difference between the three of us. Our Canadianness outweighed our Dutch or Chinese heritage. Continue reading

Contemplating a Kindergarten Lesson

MC40_Mitch-Kev-2My son Mitch and his best friend Kev went to school together from junior kindergarten through grade 12. When the boys were in senior kindergarten, the teacher did a class on how being different can be very cool. When Mitch came home he asked me the following questions…

Mitch: When I was a baby I got milk from you right?

Me: Yes that’s right.

Mitch: Was the milk white?

Me: Yes, why?

Mitch: Kev’s mom must have given him chocolate milk!

-MaryKay in Barrie, Ontario